Wednesday, August 15, 2012

How did I get here?

I think we all know the biological way I got into this world, so I will spare you the details of THAT whole debacle.  The question I'll answer is how I got to this place on the world wide web.  I know there are newer, more updated terms than "world-wide web" or "information highway", but I'm an old lady (according to the definition I had of someone my age when I was sixteen) and so would like to cling to the terms that I became accustomed to when this whole infrastructure was being built.

It all started with my parents.  Obviously.  They were foolish enough to believe that, when I was developing into a thinking human being, that it would be appropriate to answer my questions with honest and direct answers instead of 'because'.  If they didn't know the answer, they would sit me down with the appropriate volume of our cherished set of Encyclopedias and figure it out with me.  The only thing this accomplished was to give me the impression that, when I was curious about something, I should ask questions or look up the answer.  What were they thinking?!


I went to college and got my degree in History and English (subjects regarded as 'useless' by the majority of the population unless I wanted to be a teacher -- which I decidedly did NOT).  To make my education even more impracticable, I added a minor in Religion.  When I graduated college in the early nineties, the interweb for the masses was in its infancy, cellular phones were the size of a shoe box, and it was still fashionable to wear tights under a pair of plaid wool shorts in the winter (a fad that is resurfacing much to my chagrin).

I've been blessed to enjoy continued employment since the day after my college graduation.  Along the way, I've traveled to various places in these great United States and gotten to meet different people and sample some regional cultures.  I've met wonderful and interesting people as well as some who I easily "left in the dust".

Along the way, I got older.  I'm not going to pretend that means more mature or wiser because I've learned that the more I know, the less intelligent I am.  With age, I've found myself to be more stubborn...  More resistant to change, maybe?  Not that I'm one of those "change is bad" people.  I'm just one of those, "Change for the sake of change is bad" people.  The world is moving so rapidly now (and I know it's not just because I've gotten older and can't keep up) that it seems like a waste of energy to keep up some days because it's just going to be different tomorrow.

A little over a year ago, one of my dear friends and co-workers retired after fifty years in our industry.  I asked what made this energetic septuagenarian how she knew it was time.  When her head tilted back as she laughed, her glorious mane of Texas big hair never moved, "Ohhh sweetheart," she drawled, "I just realized I'm tired of learnin'!"  I liked that answer and decided that I would also use that as my marker some day when I needed to decide the date of my retirement.  This coworker is now travelling the country in her RV with her husband and watching college football on her satellite.  I'm certain she's still learning -- but it's what she wants to learn and not what someone else is telling her she needs to know.

As for me...  I'm still questioning why things are the way they are.  I've shared my observations about the world with a few friends who have suggested that my sometimes sarcastic, often bewildered, and a little unconventional observations have caused them to stop and think, laugh, and (sometimes) cry.  They are the ones who encouraged me to start this blog.

So here I am.  There will be times I will shake the fist at the world.  Other times where my opinion will be blatantly clear and certain.  Maybe more times that I will just be confused in this journey of adapting and growing in the fastest changing era in the history of the world.

Welcome!  I hope you enjoy the ride!

3 comments:

  1. Welcome to blogging, Spinster. I completely agree on the learning thing. I love that as a decisive point in when one can retire. That and can I keep myself out of the state-run elderly poor house! I am a teacher. It sounds like you and I graduated around the same time, and I hear you not only about the Political Correctness Movement, but also the "Let's Not Say or do Anything to Hurt a Child's Self-Esteem" movement- in my opinion one of the most destructive ideas to ever come down the pike. Don't get me wrong--having had teachers from the nether reaches of hell, I am an advocate of the kind approach. But seriously--you have to be able to read these days. Period. Ok- I wasn't meaning to get that long winded. I look forward to reading your surly accounts. I hope you won't make me cry, but, whatever!

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    1. Thank you so much for my very first comment!

      Oh my! Perhaps we went to the same school? Yes mine would have scared Dante himself (thank-you-useless-English-Degree-for-the-reference). However, in a recent conversation with a friend of a grade schooler, she tried to explain the benefit of not keeping score in sports. I'm still confused as to whether or not it's to keep anxiety about doing math at bay or so the winners won't feel good about themselves.

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  2. Hey Spinster--

    Sorry I haven't been here in awhile. About the not keeping score in sports----it's the same reasoning that drives the banning of tag because the last kid to be "it" when the bell rings will have their self esteem injured. Yep--you can't read and you're a disrespectful little jerk, but by golly, you like yourself! :)

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